The rabbi who taught Rivka Hebrew and Torah , science, history,
maths and other basic studies, was rabbi
Tsjechanovskij. Rivka liked him very much. She said, he
was a wonderful man, a very tall man, when he saw her, he always took
her cheeks between his fingers and smiled and asked:" How are you doing,
my child?". The rabbi and his wife had three children,
Yankel, Avraham
and Tizel.
The name of one of the last teachers of the Cheder in Pakruojis was
Kahn, she remembers.
Berka
and Leibel were Rivka's two brothers. Eight
days after their birth, they were circumcised by the so called mohel who
was taught how to do the B'rith ( the circumcision). All this according
to Jewish Law and rituals. This day was and is a very important day for
the Jews all around the world. They remember the Covenant between
Avraham and his people and God. Rivka remembers about Leibel's
circumcision, that the ceremony took place at home, that the baby
Leibel was given some wine before the circumcision took place and
that afterwards there was a big B'rith party with lots of sweets and
cakes and wine. There were also prayers recited and everyone was so
happy and cheerful.
The Bar Mitzvah of the two boys took place when they were thirteen years
old . It was celebrated in Pakruojis. The young boy became a member of
the Jewish community and was responsible for the community and for their
and his personal acts.
Rivka
remembers that before the boys celebrated their Bar Mitzvah, they had to
study for two years the parsja they had to read in Hebrew in the
synagogue for the congregation. They learned all about this parsja ( a
passage in the Torah) . Rabbi Tsjechanovskij was their
accompanying rabbi .
After the ceremony in the synagogue, the Bar Mitzvah party was held in
the house of their parents. So, also, the party of the two Shapiro boys.
Their mother had cooked and prepared a lot of food , especially sweets,
and the invited guests were relatives and friends of the Shapiro boys.
There were also some girls at the party.
When someone died in the Jewish community people used to close the
stores.
On
the day of the funeral, men and women walked together behind the coffin
until they arrived at the bridge in Pakruojis. The coffin was laid then
on a cart and taken to the cemetery . The men and women followed. When
someone couldn't pay for the funeral the money was collected from
members of the Jewish community . There was a special casket for this
money to be found in the small building behind the synagogue.
During the first week after the death of their beloved one, the family
"sat sjive". They sat on the floor or on a low stool, like a footstool.
They cried and cried , said Rivka. The neighbours did the
cooking, the cleaning , everything what was needed for the mourners.
Rivka remembers very well when her mother Frada "sat sjive"
for her deceased husband Moishe Shapiro. She was sitting on a low
footstool the whole week and cried and cried.
All what I tell you, is just like a dream, Rivka says. |